What do u do if ur wife tells u she wants to watch u have sex with another women?

My wife wants me to have sex with another women while she watches. I dont know what to tell her. What should I do??? And yes I love her

If my wife asked me that, I'd be okay with it. I'd ask her to film it, too.

Well if there's one thing I've learned about people we're all different. We all have fantasies, but very few of us actually get to act them out. Now the first question you have to ask yourself, is "is she serious or just messing with your head"? If she is serious what will be the repercussions if any.

Some women can handle this type of thing and others cannot (probably the vast majority), however only you know your wife better than most so you'll have to figure that out. Has she exhibited this type of behavior before you were married?

Now if this is totally against your grain just simply tell her no way Jose and let it go at that. Because frankly there's no way I'm doing that for my wife, love be dammed. However if it is something that you are contemplating (and the average guy would be contemplating). Think it through, discuss it thoroughly and remember whatever happens there will be a reaction. Whether its a positive or negative reaction will depend upon your wife.

Ask her what's making her feel that this is necessary in order for the two of you to have a fulfilling sex life. Obviously she feels as if something is lacking and believes that living out this fantasy will make a difference. Reality dictates that the outcome of bringing someone else into the bedroom is not so great for most couples. You need to talk it out and agree that it needs to remain in the realm of fantasy or seek counseling to get to the root of whatever the REAL problem is between you.

Don't fall for it. It could be a test. LOL.Seriously, I know people say that there is nothing wrong if both spouses agree to it.

I think if you're willing to bring other people into your bed when you're married, you might as well just be single. When you marry, you're supposed to want to leave the swinging, wild single life style to be with the one person. Marriage is sacred, and I just wish that people would start understanding that.

Just because you CAN do a thing, doesn't mean you SHOULD. Some fantasies should stay just that...fantasies.

It just doesn't make sense to me to bring someone else into the 'marriage bed', but that's my opinion. There is a movie out called 'Trois' and I always recommend that any couple seriously considering this setup to watch it. All sorts of things can go really, really wrong when you do this. Sorry, I'd rather see the craziness in a movie and not in my own private life. If that makes me a prude, so be it.

Assuming this isn't just some crappy test, I would have to think about it but in the end I'm pretty sure I just wouldn't go there.

More than anything, I'd try to get to the bottom of why it was that this was a turn-on for her. The point being, so that maybe we could simulate something like it w/out actually bringing somebody else into it (which just crosses the line for me). For instance, if it would get her off, maybe I could jerk it to a porno while she watched. Or we could both pretend she was somebody else while I had my way with her. Or something.

Just something that could satisfy her fantasy without, in my eyes, sacrificing our marriage's (and my own) integrity.

If she really wants this then you guys need to talk becasue your walking into a mine field that yes is fun for a few hours but will be hung over your head for YEARS. Believe me I have been married for 23 years and my wife and I had a threesome 10 years ago and I still hear about it all the time and not in a good way. SO BE CAREFUL!!!! This is something you will pay for in many many ways down the road.

You make sure she understands all the repercussions that could arise from this. That the two of you agree on exactly what is to happen if you agree to it. That you do some research on threesomes and polyamory. Then if she still wants to go for it, enjoy the fact that she is open-minded and willing to share her needs with you.

WOW!!!

It would scare the living hell out of me. I wouldn't know how to take it. On 1 hand she could be setting me up, just to see what I would do. Then the thought of "what kind of freak am I married to" would constantly come to mind. Now on the other hand, I would think a free pass to some different p*ssy. Cant beat that. With my wife possibly joining in. That's a dream come true. But the not knowing how it would affect both of us, would be too much to overcome. Some things are better left unknown. This is 1.

if shes always that freaky then i wouldnt worry. i know plenty of people who are into weird things like that. but if she never says that, she could be curious about women and not want to tell you but figures this way is the best way rather than cheating on you. she probably wants to watch her, not you. if you dont mind, then do it once see how it goes :-)

even though its her fantasy. it's one i wouldn't fulfill it. its too much of a risk to my marriage. potential fun could lead to a whole lot of heartache and drama. plus what if the wife cannot get over it. she might entertain the idea now...but tomorrow...will she feel different?

also if i was in your shoes, i wouldn't be comfortable doing it with the wife watching. because my heart would still be with my spouse. mind body and soul , i would only want to be with person i love.

1. maybe she wants to see how other women feel or react to things you do. curiosity

2. maybe she wants to see if you enjoy it with her more or the other woman. somethings are hard to fake in the moment.

talk to her.

How do you feel about it? If you feel uncomfortable then tell her that not your thing and you don't feel comfortable doing that. If you are ok with it then go for it but make sure she understand that you will be having sex with another woman and it might not be as easy as it sounds. good luck

Take your wife to a bar and tell her she has to pick the girl and approach her.

If she is reluctant and hangs back,she was trying to test you.

If she goes for it and starts chatting up women,she's genuine.

The next question is,do you want to do it?

I would say no. She may get jealous or start asking you all sorts of questions like, "is this sex better?" which it may be...this is dangerous ground. I would say no, and tell her to fantasize about it, or watch a porn and pretend your doing the girl or something.

seriously dont risk a loving marriage...

its a fantasy and she will live if its not fulfilled. Trust me once she sees it in reality it can go wrong...it go also go right, but once that door is opened it can never be closed and it can really ruin what you guys have...

tell her no because her reverse phycoligy is saying she wants to boink other dudes and that if you can watch if you want.THAT IS A BAD SIGN MAN I WOULD SIT HER DOWN AND HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH HER AND ASK HER IF IT IS A GOOD IDEA TO GO SEPERATE WAYS BECAUSE SHE IS EITHER FUCKIN OTHER DUDES OR IS PLANNING ON IT WITH OR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT

I have no idea. If my wife told me that, I have no idea if I could easily resist the temptation to live this out. On the surface, it's like winning a lottery...and you know, it must come with a price.

Dress her up in a wig and some new lingerie and make a sex video. She might think she wants you to do that but it's rarely a good idea.

Talk to her. Ask her why she wants to watch. What you do depends on the conversation you have with her.

Ask her how long has she wanted to sleep with another woman.

well... what do you want to do? honestly it's prob not a good idea- inviting someone into your marriage bed is never a good idea.

Tell her you aren't comfortable with that. That's weird. She must be freaky.

Tell her no, and that you don't live in a moral vacuum.

dude, jump all over that, but tell her you want her to join in too.

Don't do it!

It's a trap!

ask her if she'll join in, talk about it and make sure you're both on the same page. lastly, have fun

you really have to ask? jeez, when my wife says that stuff, I thank my lucky stars I met and married such a sexy girl!